Photo: Joey Huang on Unsplash
What to write in a sympathy card when you don't know what to say
Gentle sympathy card messages for a colleague, a friend or someone you don't know well, what to avoid, and how a group can show support with one card.
A simple plan for organising a group card at work or with friends: who to invite, when to start, how to get everyone to sign in time, and how to deliver it.
By The Card2Print team · · updated · 3 min read
Photo: Brooke Cagle on Unsplash
Organising a group card shouldn't feel like a project. With a little planning, you can have a card signed by everyone, delivered at exactly the right moment, without chasing people down the corridor. Here's the plan we recommend.
The most common reason a card goes wrong is that it's started too late. As soon as you know about the occasion, start the card: pick the occasion, a cover and the person's name. You can change the cover and title later.
Starting early gives everyone time to sign, including people who are away, part-time or in another time zone.
Think about everyone who'd want to be included, not just the people sitting nearby:
You don't have to invite people one by one. One signing link works for everyone.
Copy the signing link (the Share button on your card) and post it where the group already talks: the team chat, a WhatsApp group, a Teams channel or an email. Add a line that makes it easy to act on:
We're making a leaving card for Sam, finishing on Friday. Add a message, a photo or a GIF here, it takes a minute: [link]. Please sign by Thursday 5pm!
Make sure the person the card is for isn't in that chat.
In Manage → Delivery, add the recipient's email and choose when the card should arrive. Some good moments:
Signing closes automatically when the card is delivered. If you'd rather hand it over yourself, skip the email and share the recipient's link when the moment comes.
People mean to sign and forget. Two or three days before delivery, tap Remind everyone: it opens a ready-made reminder with the time left, for WhatsApp, a text or an email. One reminder usually doubles the number of messages.
On the day, the card opens with a short animated reveal: the highlights from the messages, then the whole card with every message, GIF and photo. The recipient can react to messages and send a thank-you back to the group.
Print-ready PDFs, for a paper version from a home printer or a print shop, are free during the beta: open the card and choose Print.
| When | What to do |
|---|---|
| As soon as you know | Start the card, set the delivery date |
| The same day | Share the signing link with the group |
| 2–3 days before | Tap Remind everyone |
| The day before | Check the messages; add a photo |
| The day | It's delivered on time |
About a minute to start it. Each person then needs a minute or two to sign from their phone or computer.
Yes. Signing works in any phone or computer browser, with no account or app.
They can open the card again from the same phone or computer and edit or delete their message until the card is delivered. The organiser can also hide any message.
Yes. Skip the email and share the recipient's link yourself at the right moment. You can also print the card as a PDF, free during the beta.
Photo: Joey Huang on Unsplash
Gentle sympathy card messages for a colleague, a friend or someone you don't know well, what to avoid, and how a group can show support with one card.
Photo: engin akyurt on Unsplash
How to collect wedding wishes from a whole group, including guests who live far away, and deliver one card the couple will read again and again.
Photo: Brooke Cagle on Unsplash
Forgot the card again? A group e-card is started in a minute, signed by everyone from their phone, and delivered on the day, even if you're all miles apart.